becoming yourself

  • Nobody Can Know

    I spent so much of my life believing there were things nobody could know. Somewhere along the way, though, “I have things I need to hide” became “I am someone who needs to be hidden.”

    I have worked incredibly hard to become a woman who feels safe being herself. What I am realizing now is that feeling safe with myself and feeling safe enough to be fully known by someone else are two very different things. Maybe healing this next layer is learning that I can be seen without abandoning the person I fought so hard to become.

  • Does Anyone Actually Know What They’re Doing?

    Why the people we seek for directions may be navigating a different landscape entirely Article also featured on Substack Does Anyone Actually Know What They’re Doing? This morning, during my usual morning reflection on life with my online friend, I found myself talking about how lost I feel right now. It is a feeling I…